Can someone give me some advice?

Filed under: xn--fcs741fqka.com — jack @ January 6, 2009 edit

So this guy has asked me out maybe three times, but we flirt a lot and he knows everything about me. We've known each other forever. But I've always turned him down because I haven't been ready to go out with someone. This summer, while I was away, and we talked for hours on the phone. I fell for him. I told him I thought we should go out, he agreed.

So I kind of figured that when I got home, we would get together. He called me again about three weeks later, while I was still away, and our conversation was shorter and weirder. He was dating this girl, "Sarah", at that point, but they broke up in a week. And he told me that he was dating someone but he liked someone else. I thought he meant me.

When I got home, he pretty much ignored me first time I saw him and spent his time hitting on this other girl, "Jennifer". They got together, went out for about a month. They just broke up. And when they did, I was the first one he told. But today I heard that they might be getting back together.

I don't know what to do. We used to talk all the time, we don't anymore. We used to flirt, we don't anymore. He used to be one of my best friends, and he's not anymore. What does this mean? What do I do? I want to tell him how I feel but it's really soon after he broke up with Jennifer and I don't want our friendship to be ruined.

Keep your mouth closed! Trust me. If you are good friends and a relationship hasn't worked out yet then maybe that is for the best-atleast you can remain friends. He already knows how you feel-you talked about it over the phone. If he wants to be in your life romantically-let him make that move. Meanwhile, put your sights on someone new and give him a taste of his own medicine!

Don't bother with him.

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these kinds of questions there.

Good luck

He's doing a pretty good job of ruining the friendship already. You need to ask him what's going on and that you thought you two were going to go out. And that if you don't want to go and just want to be friends, he needs to stop being a jerk. you deserve better.
good luck.

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